When attending a funeral service held to give someone their final send-off, it is customary for attendees to bring a sympathy gift for the grieving family. This gift has traditionally been a bouquet of sympathy flowers, and it’s a time-honored tradition that is still quite popular. But this doesn’t mean you can’t opt for an alternative before or after the service at a Melrose, NY funeral home. Fortunately, there are quite a few options. Here are some suggestions.
Yes, a gift basket is the perfect alternative if you don’t want to bring sympathy flowers. One of the reasons a gift basket makes such a great sympathy gift is that it is a versatile option. In fact, you can put just about anything in a gift basket whether you order one from a vendor or create one on your own. You can, for instance, offer a gift basket containing baked goods, toiletries, fruits, nuts or many other different things. If you know the grieving family, you might be able to further customize the gift basket so that it has a personal touch that they will appreciate. So if the lady of the home loves to cook pasta, you could include premium spices or pasta sauces. If the grieving family has children, you can include treats that little ones will appreciate.
Planning a funeral takes hard work, and paying for it requires a tangible financial commitment. Would your financial position allow you to help out? If so, you provide the grieving family with a sympathy card containing. Another way you can help is to let the family know that you’re willing to cover a certain aspect of the final services. For instance, you might want to foot the cost of the reception or the flowers to decorate the area where the funeral service will be held. You can bet that the family will appreciate your kindness in offering to help with costs.
Give to Charity
Sometimes grieving families actually ask that people donate to a specific cause in lieu of giving them sympathy flowers. So if the deceased had a favorite cause that the grieving family encourages attendees to donate to, you can honor their request by making a donation. If the family does not specifically ask, you can take the initiative and make a donation on their behalf.
Again, sympathy flowers make great gifts for grieving families. But this doesn’t mean that you can’t opt for something else. Whether going with a gift basket, monetary gift or charitable contribution, you can honor the deceased and the grieving family by choosing sympathy gift alternatives. Do you need help from a funeral home in Melrose, NY? At McLoughlin & Mason Funeral Home, located at 8 109th St Troy, NY 12182, we have expertise helping families that are grieving a loss. We’re the oldest family-owned funeral home in Troy with a combined 150 years of funeral service to the community. You can count on us to help in your time of need. Call us at (518) 235-1722 to learn more.